Am I getting played!!?

One thing is for sure, that guy is really confused between his ex and you and so i think you should wait for things to happen. Firstly because as you have been recently from a breakup so its natural that who ever comes in ur lyf giving an extra support at this time, you would be tilted towards him.....dats natural....no worries..... but its time to give that guy a chance to choose between you and her....if he cares about you then he may come back and if he doesnt its time to remain friends..... hope this helps...